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OH,
BEHAVE!
The
Secrets to Managing and Measuring Behaviours
Do you have a colleague
who is causing you angst at the moment? How have you been responding?
I was recently doing a project with a colleague
who was very keen to please and consequently, every time he saw
me he started on the defensive—explaining what he had done
and why—working very hard to justify his position. This was
very time-consuming and frankly became quite wearing. I then tried
a little experiment.
The next couple of times he walked into my office,
the first thing I did was look up at him and smile. The change in
his demeanour was miraculous! No justification, no defensive behaviours…the
simple positive reinforcement of my smile was all it took to change
his behaviour. Wow!
One of the well-recognised ways of changing
behaviour is to use either reinforcement or punishment, but sometimes
the outcomes aren’t what are expected.
For example, many companies have used ‘rewards’
as a way of reinforcement—anything from movie tickets to a
major cash bonus. But experience has found that over time these
special rewards become expected, and therefore lose their impact.
There are also many examples of team members becoming more productive—simply
because of a change in their environment. The surprise though is
that the change could have been either positive or negative—it
was the change, rather than what the change was, that created interest
and therefore increased productivity.
So how can the modern day manager apply basic
psychology to encourage desirable behaviours and eliminate undesirable
ones?
Using Positive Feedback to Change Behaviour
As they say in the old song: ‘accentuate the positive (in
order to) eliminate the negative’. How often do you hear people
saying—‘no one seems to notice when we do something
right—they only notice if we do something wrong and then all
hell breaks loose!’ The main problem with this approach (besides
the fact that people don’t generally feel appreciated) is
that if they do do something wrong, they often are at great pains
to hide their mistake—which can make things even worse.
So, that’s the answer?
Do you remember the book The One Minute
Manager by Kenneth Blanchard and Spencer Johnson? One of their
approaches summaries the concept well:
‘Help People Reach Their Full
Potential—Catch Them Doing Something Right’.
Feedback about performance, particularly positive
feedback, is a powerful way to change people’s behaviour.
Here’s how it works:
- Catch them doing something right
- Praise immediately—saying what they
did right. Be specific
- Tell them how it helps the organisation and
other people working there
- Encourage them to do more of the same
- Smile and/or use appropriate touch to reinforce
your support of them
Of course there are many forms of giving positive
reinforcement. It could be material such as a pay increase, bonus,
promotion or better office; it could be verbal, phrases such as
‘you’ve done a good job’ or ‘I appreciate
your efforts on that project’; or non verbal such as a smile,
pat on the back or other form of attention.
It’s well recorded that the more traditional
approach of using negative consequences or even punishment to try
to make behavioural change often doesn’t work. For example,
negative consequences could be material things such as the loss
of privileges, a demotion, or pay-cut; or the use of negative verbal
phrases such as ‘don’t you ever get anything right’
or ‘you’re useless’ may make the boss feel better
but has an negative impact on the person involved. And finally non-verbal
communications such as frowning and shaking your head send very
clear negative messages. Do these approaches work in generating
a change in behaviour or do they simply build a sense of resentment?
What has your personal experience been?
Have you noticed that if someone gets negative
feedback, they tend to blame others? If they get positive feedback
they tend to accept it, and take ownership of it.
Pinpointing Behaviour to Change It
If a behaviour is to be changed or modified, it must be possible
to clearly identify it and measure it. It is easy to label behaviour,
for example, to say someone is lazy, or disagreeable, but is that
helpful when giving feedback? Well, not really because how can you
measure laziness, or record if someone is being disagreeable?
It is only when you ‘pinpoint’ the
behaviour you can actually measure it. So if someone is ‘disagreeable’
their behaviour could be pinpointed by the fact they argue and complain.
Rather than saying someone is lazy, it is more measurable if you
pinpoint their behaviour, for example, they don’t initiate
projects or check their work for accuracy.
Once someone’s behaviour, either desirable
or undesirable, has been pinpointed, then you have a tool to manage
that behaviour—rather then relying on what my be seen as your
own prejudges or misconceptions of what’s actually happening.
This approach works extremely well when rating
or monitoring a call centre for example. When people are given the
list of expected behaviours, and how they are to be performed, then
a meaningful appraisal of their performance can be made—and
measured!
About
the Author
Candy Tymson is an expert in business communications with more than
twenty years experience in the fields of marketing and public relations.
Based in Sydney, she is a business educator and professional speaker
and the author of Gender Games: Doing Business With The Opposite
Sex. For information on her workshops, presentations and products
call 02 9976 6777, email candy@tymson.com.au
or go to the website www.tymson.com.au
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